Saturday, December 8, 2007

My favorite Christmas Present. Ever.

By Rachel

Here's an idea for all y'all. Several years ago as my grandmother's health was declining I panicked thinking that if we lost her, some of our favorite meals might be gone forever also. I suggested to her that she create a recipe book for us. It turned into much, much more.

In the beginning it was a beautiful book of rememberance. Grandma Jane included stories and pictures from throughout her life. There is one photo of my mother as a baby being held by both of her grandmothers. What a gem! Grandma Jane was divorced, but she made sure to include pictures of our grandfather and his parents as well. Many of the recipes were photocopied, written in her handwriting probably 40 years ago. She also included some of her mother's favorite recipes, as well as having each of her daughters and granddaughters submit a favorite recipe with a picture of their families. This book is such a treasure trove of heritage.

Books were distributed at Christmas to each girl in the family. I think I can speak for all of us and say that these books are amongst our most prized possessions. Sadly, we lost Grandma Jane the following year. I think we all have been able to maintain a closeness to her through this book, however. My daughters and I love to look through it and see what her life was like. The Christmas following her death, we decided to make a yearly tradition. Each Christmas, each family submits a new recipe along with pictures. We anticipate our new recipes as much as anything else under the tree. I love seeing how my cousins, aunts, everyone have changed, how the kids are growing, what people are eating. Some of the recipes I will likely never make, but I treasure them nonetheless. This is a testimony that the best things in life don't require money. Just lots of love. And yummy food...

5 comments:

Cindy said...

I LOVE this! The way you describe it's set up, it keeps going on and on. I am going to seriously consider this in January and get my mom going on it.

Thanks so much for sharing!

Cindy (Roberta's cousin in Calif.)

suzan said...

I am absolutely with you Rachel. I am one of the very fortunate recipe book recipients and it is one of my favorite things in the world. I too look forward to my package every year. (It should be coming soon!!!) I pull out the book and look through it over and over wether I am cooking or not. It is such a wonderful family tradition and sooooo much more.
Thanks for posting this Rachel! Just seeing Grandma's face was such a lovely suprise and it made me so so happy!

Leslie said...

DITTO!
I will never forget that Christmas Eve, Grandma's last one with us. She sat there with a beanie on her head, as she was sick and frail with cancer. When she gave me the book and I read the poem she wrote for us about how there was nothing more valuable to her than her family, I broke down and cried and cried. It touched me so deeply. I will never forget that feeling I had that night over receiving this treasure. My kids ask often if they can look at it: It is just as much a photo album full of history as it is a recipe book.

Truly priceless!

Berta said...

Rach -
Next time you come HOME for a visit, bring it - I'd LOVE to look at it! That's awesome and I too am going to seriously think about this one.
THANKS for sharing.

The Clark said...

Roberta, call my mom. She has it too. She shared it in her ward, but since they had to go and separate wards on you, I guess you missed it!!